Melissa Etheridge Calls Prop 8 'Blatantly Hateful'
- Posted on Oct 30th 2008 12:00PM by Steve Baltin
- Comments (58)
The presidential election is less than one week away and there's no shortage of musicians offering up their political opinions. But also less than a week away is the vote on a controversial proposition in California, Proposition 8, which, if passed, would ban same-sex marriage. The heavily debated Prop 8 has drawn eyes, ears and a lot of money from those in opposition, including Ellen DeGeneres, Fall Out Boy's Pete Wentz, Steven Spielberg and now out musician Melissa Etheridge."Prop 8 is a blatantly hateful, and fearful proposition that I believe the great citizens of California can see through," Etheridge writes in an essay for the Daily Beast. "The proponents of it have run the most fearful of television ads telling the people that if this doesn't pass they will have to teach about homos to small grade school children ... Now, I know my preference of life mate freaks some people out. Maybe it is just their fear of sex or intimacy. I know that they hold up the bible and say that it's wrong. Fine, let me stand before my creator and take any consequences there might be to living my life in truth and balance with my spirit."
Etheridge wed actress Tammy Lynn Michaels in 2003, the day after then-Gov. Grey Davis gave same-sex couples domestic partnership rights. "It was a magical ceremony that started with my children walking with me down the aisle to meet my bride as the two aisles merged into one," she writes. "I wanted to stand in front of my community of family and friends and declare my promise to be committed to my partner, now my wife, through thick and thin."
For opponents of the measure, Etheridge's nine-year-old son perhaps sums it up best. In her essay, she recalls her son reading the measure out loud from the sample ballot. His response? "Wow, that's lame."











Reader Comments(1 of 3)
vergesprimeat 10-30-2008
CA Prop 8 would eliminate existing rights for same-sex couples and write discrimination into the CA constitution. Discrimination isn't always violent or blatant (although we know that's out there too). Discrimination is sometimes inherant. Please help us stop Prop 8.
If you live in CA, remember to vote NO on 8. If you don't live in CA, please remind them of the importance of their No vote. For more information on No on 8, check out: http://noonprop8.org
vergesprimeat 10-30-2008
You know, I should really learn to proof read before hitting "enter"... let's try that last one again:
If you live in CA, please remember to vote NO on Prop 8. If you don't live in CA, please remind any friends or family you have in CA to vote No. For more information on No on 8, check out: http://noonprop8.org
Ok, that sounds much better... or at least makes more sense.
Ignacia Carrascoat 10-31-2008
I live in CA and my family, friends, and I and everyone else i know will be voting YES on prop 8. And im pretty sure this measure is going to pass...SINCE IT ALREADY DID ONCE IN 2000!
Barbaraat 10-31-2008
Can I ask why you feel that it is wrong for two HUMAN BEINGS that love each other and care for each other to be DISCRIMINATED against? If the BIBLE(which is a MAN written book) were taken out of the equation (WHICH IT SHOULD BE WHEN IT COMES TO THE GOVERNMENT: SEPERATION OF CHURCH AND STATE) this whole issue would NOT be an issue!
jgb1865at 10-31-2008
Proposition 8 is not only about 2 Human Beings. That is why people feel so negative about it.
Welcome Billat 10-31-2008
All,tou Snatch Eaters vote yes!!!!!!!!!!!!
toddcoketoddat 10-31-2008
what is so sad about this whole thing is that the supporters of prop 8 call themselves "Christains." I believe they have lost their way. The millions spent on this could have been used on something good. Like maybe feeding the hungry. But instead they have spent it on hate. I'm sure Jesus would be proud.
jgb1865at 10-31-2008
Well I consider myself a Christian, maybe you consider yourself and your friends CHRISTAINS. LOLOL maybe you should go back to school to figure out who you really are.
scochra4at 10-31-2008
Yes, Jesus is proud of the Christians that stand up for his word. There is no hate here. It is with love that we take a stand. Jesus loves you so much that he died for you, and doesn't want to see you go to hell. More over, he loves the millions of children that will grow up thinking that this life style is OK with God.
Mysylvansongat 10-31-2008
You know the Government needs to but out of peoples private lives!
who really cares if same sex couples want to be legally married? If they want to be in a committed relationship that includes being legally married I say rock on! Go for it & be happy.
facjust4at 10-31-2008
Same-Sex Marriage Isn't Tolerant
Just a few examples that demonstrate same-sex marriage isn't neutral. It's about normalization and approval as a federal judge ruled. Government can't be neutral when it's condones something in the law. And that has consequences for individuals.
At my own children's high school there was a school-wide assembly to celebrate same-sex %uFFFDmarriage%uFFFD in early December, 2003.
Within months it was brought into the middle schools. In September, 2004, an 8th-grade teacher in Brookline, MA, told National Public Radio that the marriage ruling had opened up the floodgates for teaching homosexuality. %uFFFDIn my mind, I know that, `OK, this is legal now.' If somebody wants to challenge me, I'll say, `Give me a break. It's legal now,'%uFFFD she told NPR.
By the following year it was in elementary school curricula. Kindergartners were given picture books telling them that same-sex couples are just another kind of family, like their own parents.
Second graders at the same school were read a book, %uFFFDKing and King%uFFFD, about two men who have a romance and marry each other, with a picture of them kissing.
A federal judge has ruled that the schools now have a duty to portray homosexual relationships as normal to children, despite what parents think or believe!
A man undergoing a sex-change operation and cross-dressing was being brought into class to teach the children that there are now %uFFFDdifferent kinds of families.%uFFFD
School libraries across the state, from elementary school to high school, now have shelves of books to normalize homosexual behavior and the lifestyle in the minds of kid.
Over the past year, homosexual groups have been using taxpayer money to distribute a large, slick hardcover book celebrating homosexual marriage titled %uFFFDCourting Equality%uFFFD into every school library in the state.
%uFFFDGay days%uFFFD in schools are considered necessary to fight %uFFFDintolerance%uFFFD which may exist against same-sex relationships.
Obama;s View on Gay Marriage
http://www.lgbtforobama.com/videos
If we do nothing
http://www.youtube.com/user/Florida4Marriage
First Graders Taken To San Francisco City Hall For Gay Wedding during school
http://www.protectmarriage.com/article/first-graders-taken-to-san-francisco-city-hall-for-gay-wedding
xrxaxvxeat 10-31-2008
Before you vote yes on 8, would you want another religion such as islam/muslim dictating your laws? How would you feel if they passed a law here that all women need to be covered up if they go out in public. It's the same thing.
SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE. If you want to discriminate, make your own country. This is America. Half of Europe already gets it. Voting YES is another reason other countries look down on America as a bunch of hipocrites. So go ahead and vote yes on 8. God will tell you you're wrong for judging and controlling others. That is his job, not yours.
xrxaxvxeat 10-31-2008
Um, HELLO. You say the problem with the book is gays, but if you were RATIONAL, you'd have a problem with any book that shows kissing whether it's male/male, female/female, male/female. LAST THING I KNEW is kids books have people skipping and holding hands. God knows the lies told and doesn't approve of lies, even if you think it's in his honor. God can defend himself. You should have faith, not hate and fear.
Jackie Oat 10-31-2008
I wish I was living there, Cause I would protest this just like people protested to get the prayer out of school. NO ONE who is "christian" supports homosexuality.
Grant the Greatat 10-31-2008
To the person who state that this money could be used to feed the poor etc., why do you insist that i accept you and your thoughts but if I think something is wrong with their thoughts I am everything but a slug.
Why don't the gays shut the hell up, live their lives and dont force it on me and my family.
xrxaxvxeat 10-31-2008
Gays aren't forcing anything on your family. That discomfort you feel is called hate. People murder people every day. Is that forcing murder upon your family? You're totally irrational.
libslie1111at 10-31-2008
FREAKS....THEY TOOK THE RIGHT TO VOTE OUT OF VOTERS HANDS.....WE DONT WANT LICKER MARRIAGE OR SODOMITE MARRIAGE LEGALIZED.GO BACK TO YOUR CLOSETS
mark2winat 10-31-2008
It doesnt matter if it passes, which it probably will, some liberal judge will overrule the wishes of the people. One judge will negate the votes of millions- now thats what they call democracy (in Russia)
Barbaraat 10-31-2008
I am not gay by any means, but I will say that they deserve the chance to marry whom ever they want. They are HUMAN BEINGS, have we forgotten this? I mean here we are labeling people like we did when slavery was around. I mean come on GROW UP, pull the BIBLE out of your butts and realize that we all BLEED, CRY, and FEEL the same as everyone one else. So my dear why don't you shut the hell up, because no one is forcing anything on you and your family.
facjust4at 10-31-2008
For those tooting the Un-Christian speech
Jesus does have a worldview on Marriage
-Male and Female-
His words not mine
Matt 19:4
4And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.