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Melissa Etheridge Returns to Rock on 'Fearless Love'

Melissa EtheridgeMelissa Etheridge has long been a crusader, whether it's as a gay rights activist, an environmentalist or breast cancer survivor. On 'Fearless Love,' the first single and soaring title track from her forthcoming album, she is a zealot of a different sort, championing our inalienable right to love unafraid and, as she sings, never "settle for anything less."

Buoyed by her excitement about her 10th studio album, the Grammy and Academy Award winner told Spinner she's in "an amazing place," both physically and emotionally. Here she talks about her first kiss, her activism and her return to rock.

The first line of 'Fearless Love' is "I was 17, you kissed my lips." What inspired that line?

It was the first time I kissed a girl. I try to put my own experiences in my songs, of course, and yet have them remain universal. It was intense going through that experience and having the fireworks go off: "Oh my God, this is greatest thing ever! This is what all my girlfriends have been talking about when they kiss boys" and stuff. I was like, "Hmmm I don't feel that" and then all of a sudden I felt it and I had to keep it in to myself. It will eat you up. It's horrible to have to put a lid on something.

The song features the line "You are what are afraid of." What do you mean by that?

That's what I'm trying to push forward in this song. I am what I am and we all are. We are exactly what we are: what we look like, we feel, that's what we are. We take that and become whatever we are afraid of. If you take that on and say, "Oh I'm afraid of this" and it stops you from doing, then you become what you are afraid of.

What was the impetus for this song?

When I first sat down in January, I really started working on the songs. I knew I would be recording in July and I wanted to give myself months to really bring this together because the whole concept of the album is just that everything in our lives comes down to fear and love. There are only two vibrations in the world and you're either making a love choice or a fear choice, so the working title of this album was 'Songs of Fear of Love.'

Why did you change it?

As I started writing these songs, my older kids said "Mom, what are you going to call the album?" I said "'Songs of Fear and Love'" and [my daughter, Bailey] said, "It's too many words, mom." I said, "Okay, How about 'Fearless'?" and she said "Taylor Swift album. Why don't you say 'Fearless Love'?" So 'Fearless Love,' that's kind of perfect, but I have to write a song for that now. I think she said that in the morning, I dropped her off at school and I came home and I wrote this song.

What does loving fearlessly mean to you?

It means everything. It means loving myself fearlessly. That's where it starts -- by saying I love myself enough to make the choices that are out of love and not out of fear. I love myself enough to not be fearful, just loving yourself fully and clearly. Once you do that, you understand that you can love fearlessly in the world.

What else can you tell us about the album?

The whole album just rocks and rocks and rocks. It doesn't give up. Every song is very emotional and very intense. There are all kinds of different subjects in it. There's a couple where I sing about other people, situations where I'm the third person observer and I don't do that very often. I decided I want to do that more.

Bruce Springsteen, whom you love, talks about his lifelong conversation with his audience. What's your lifelong conversation with your fans like?

My first album started my lifelong conversation. When I write an album, I know there are layers, I know there are people who will go, that's a nice song, she does that 'Window' song and they listen to it on that level and that's great. Then there are those that go a little deeper and then there are those who are really looking for what I'm trying to say, my intention, the emotional background of where I was coming from when I wrote those songs. What was I questioning? What was I expressing? Sometimes I'll use a phrase that goes back to something early and these fans, they catch it. There are things that I write just for them. There are songs that you'll never hear on the radio, but they'll hear it. They'll take it as when I listen to my Bruce albums. They'll take everything in and listen to it on that level and I wanted to give that.

You, at various points, have been the poster child for breast cancer survivors, gay rights, environmentalism. Do you ever worry that that's all going to overshadow your music?

I don't worry about that. Sometimes it does overshadow. I know there are people who know me as that lesbian who sang bald on the Grammys, the Janis Joplin song, and that's what they know. That's okay and I'm hoping that this album can actually reach those people who know of me, who know that 'Water' song and can go, "Oh that's what's she's doing." Because, yeah, a lot of times the universe puts me on the edge of stuff sometimes and I've agreed to speak about it and here I am.

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Ken

Hi: I don't give a shit about all the gay politics. Melissa Etheridge is just a plain old good singer. While waiting in line at the Paramount Theatre for her show in 2001 I ran into some fans who follow her around the country. She appears to have a following similar to that of the Greatful Dead. I'm looking foward to seeing her at the KFOG KABOOM on 5/22/10. This will be the seventh time I've seen her in concert and the first time I'll be able to take pictures of her in concert. C U L8R!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May 01 2010 at 6:49 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
k

Her heyday may have been in the 90s, but Etheridge just improves with age. See the track by track review here: http://bit.ly/aMjMn0

April 27 2010 at 12:08 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Sammie

The Bible tells us that each one of us shall give an account to God. It'll be most interesting to see how Melissa Etheridge tries to "explain" this one to God.
================= It's a shame you won't be there to see it, Steve.

December 20 2009 at 7:45 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Denise

Mr. me what is your point that God uplifts women. I am all for women getting uplifted. I am right there backing God on uplifting women.

December 19 2009 at 6:15 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Larry James

God bless you, Judy.

December 19 2009 at 5:29 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Larry James

Denise, READ the bible! In the bible, God uplifts women. Read about the women around Jesus and those used in the early church-God treats women well. Many religious institutions don't, but God does.

December 19 2009 at 5:27 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Denise

JC if an adult is asking an 11 or 12 year old that is not a homo that is a pediphile you should have turned the sicko in. A homo doesn't convert people. However the straights are trying to convert the homos.

December 19 2009 at 5:08 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Window555

Melissa, keep up the great humanitarian crusade and sharing your deepest feelings through music.
I usually make positive comments or none at all. However, in this case I will have to make an exception. Christian 101, I’m sorry to say, this is directed toward you. I’m sure you are sincere in all your beliefs, but they are only OPINIONS, and other people have them also. You seem to have appointed yourself spokesperson for all “Religious” people. I put the word “religious” in quotes, because I think you and I have different meanings for the same word. I’m sure there are many people who consider themselves to be religious, would disagree with many of your views (I happen to be one of them). There is neither time nor space here to get into each of your opinions except to say that you seem to spout them out as if they are indisputable facts with no room for interpretation. So, actually, you leave me no room for discussion anyway, because you seem to have all the absolute answers.
Rikuat did not state the he/she hates religious people, only overly religious morons like you. And I, like many other religious people out here, think every statement that Rikuat made was accurate. It is not my intention to be mean, but Christian 101, you bring out the worst in me.

December 19 2009 at 4:46 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
JAMAA

Some of you people on here are terrible. Just let me live they wanna live. Good grief.

December 19 2009 at 4:24 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Josh

Riku, you ovbiously havent studied God, the Bible or church history. The first chapter of John states that God is the word. The Bible is the word. So how can God have something in the Bible that he dosent belive.God inspired men to write the Bible he had the men right what he wanted them too. God is not willing for any man to perish but that all should come to repentance. God wants all gay men and women to turn from their evil ways and repent. God hates the sin not the sinner. Jesus came into the world to save that wich is unrightous, not the rightous. I hope you will excuse my spelling mistakes and repent and turn yourself toward Jesus Christ the one and only true Savior. John 14:6 I am the way the truth and the life no man commeth unto the Father but by me.

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